Saying 'NO' Can Build Real Self Esteem

​​My self esteem was fed by people loving me for what I gave them. I have now learned to say 'no'. I feel really empowered when I love myself enough to mother myself and I know that I gift everyone. People respect me more and I am only giving from a real Heart space of "YES I want to give to you because it feels good for me". If someone rejects me, then they were not a true and valuable friend and the space they leave will be filled with those who love and respect me. All I have to do is be mindful of taking care of my own happiness. If we all did that. it would be a wonderful world of happy people where no one would feel guilty for letting anyone down! We'd all be able to take care of our own happiness and respect each other. Ohhhh I DREAM......... Love from
~Eileen Dielesen (copyright 04.02.2017)

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